Massage: Feminine art

Massages That Have What It Takes

Of the following massage, the first one serves as a bit of an introductory exercise. From the upper body massage onwards, the exercise is increasingly about awakening and subtly spreading erotic sexual energy into your heart, as the centre of your love for yourself and the world, and to the other chakras, in order to stimulate and nourish them and to transform the respective feelings in them, By transform I mean to turn all feelings and sensations into pure life energy by bringing into them the awareness of the breath, by expressing them and letting them live, by letting them be and thus letting them go again.

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Pressing instead of talking

Sometimes all this talking about it causes us to lose sight of the actual experience. And yet pleasure companion can’t necessarily sense what the recipient of her massage wants at a particular moment. That’s why it’s a good idea to develop a language without too many words that make it easy for both parties to get back to the level of sensing and feeling.

This massage can get more sensual and erotic than is spelled out here in words. The extent to which this is possible depends on each encounter, on the feelings of both partners, and on their courage.

Goal

Practicing active passivity and enjoyable silence without completely giving up responsibility for you

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Time and external preparations

Two segments of thirty minutes each, plus a little time to discuss afterward. You need a mat and a nice blanket; toys and other objects for sensual-erotic pleasures.

Step by step

v  If you’re the pleasure companion, first adapt to the breathing of the person lying in front of you, and allow yourself to play with the recipient’s body intuitively, however you feel is right. You can try out anything you want as long as you pay attention to the recipient and react promptly to her signals.

v  If you’re the enjoyer, you can lie down first on your stomach, then on your back on a mat covered with a nice-looking blanket or sheet. Breather deeply and imagine that your pores are taking in all that is good; with a deep breath, draw the goodness in even deeper. Everything you don’t like is sent back out as you breathe out. In order to make it clear what you want, you can arrange something with your companion ahead of time: give a signal with your left hand when you like something and with your right if you want it to stop. (*Upper body massage indicates to breast massage) What is important, in the case of an unpleasant touch, is that you briefly express any anger that might come up but don’t get stuck on that feeling: instead, you must try to take in the next touch.

v  After a while, a second phase begins. The recipient further expresses her feelings with short instructions, like ‘harder,’ ‘softer,’ ‘faster, ‘slower,’ etc.

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v  After starting the massage with hand contact, the pleasure companion can continue with other objects or body parts like

o   Ostrich feathers or even a fan made of feathers

o   A leather glove in combination with a satin one

o   Flowers or plants without thorns or sharp stems

o   Wooden massage balls or rollers

o   Metal wheels for gently poking the skin (the housewife’s version: pastry wheels)

o   Vibrators with various attachments

o   Nubby latex pillows of latex gloves with lubricants

o   Strings of pearls  and other skin-friendly jewelry

o   Breasts, lips, and other body parts good for stroking

Creative ways to deal with stumbling blocks

As the companion, any stress you may feel about whether you are doing the exercise right can usually be resolved if both parties are constantly in attentive, nonverbal contact with each other.

Variations and suggestions

As the recipient, so that you don’t have to waste too many words in conveying your wishes, you can, for example, take your companion’s hand and lead it, or demonstrate a touch you’d like to feel, placing your hand on your companion’s back.

Upper body massage

Creative ways to deal with stumbling blocks

If you have had to give up a lot of tissue from one of both breasts as a result of breast surgery, concentrate less on their weight than on the skin contact between your breasts and your hands. Hold yourself tenderly and firmly, close your eyes, and feel how you ate holding yourself. Remind yourself that externally amputated breasts (just like our other parts) remain energetically present (their aura waves are even measurable) if you retain the as part of your body image and empower them with your mental concentration.

Uncertainty and alienation from their own bodies cause some women to initially execute this exercise quite technically. If ties are the case with you, remind yourself that with every caress you’re torching yourself as women. Then your massage will have a deeper sense of awareness.

Variations and suggestions

You can try out differing levels of pressure and tenderness, and you may determine that you have different needs and sensations on different days.